My September in reading
I’m not sure this has ever happened to me since I started methodically keeping track of the books I read—but I only read one book in September. One.
Read MoreI'm inside Insider
Today Insider was kind enough to publish another article (a listicle, in fact) that I wrote based on my dead parents website: “My parents are dead. Here are the 5 most important things I’ve learned as executor.”
Read MoreFall 2023 Playlist: Annotated
Just in time for this weekend’s autumnal equinox, I give you my Fall 2023 Playlist. I genuinely don’t know how I got this one to work, but I did. Power ballads? Rap? Céline Dion? All there. You’re welcome.
Read MoreMy August in reading
I’ve been reading a lot of self-help and memoir lately for…a project. I must admit, I was skeptical of the self-help genre as a whole, but I’ve been pleasantly surprised! Squeezed a few novels in there too, of course. My brain requires fiction to properly function.
Read MoreI saw Goody Proctor with the Devil
In October of last year, the devil paid me a visit—I hear he does that. I started writing lots of little micros, all featuring the Prince of Darkness in various forms. I’m honored that HAD published two of them this week.
Read MoreSalut, Salon
Ever since I created My Parents Are Dead: What Now?, I’ve been writing more about the loss of my parents and how difficult it is to untangle their estate. I’m honored that Salon featured a personal essay of mine today: “My parents are dead—can I afford avocado toast now?”
Read MoreMy June and July in reading
After 3.5 years, I finally caught COVID-19. My fever broke, but I’m still in the quarantine period—so this is probably a good time to tell you what I read in June and July, right?
Read MoreMy May in reading
Since it’s almost July, I should probably tell you about the books I read in May. Don’t you think?
Read MoreSummer 2023 Playlist: Annotated
I suspect when I listen to my Summer 2023 playlist in the future, I’ll realize how upset I was about my dad’s death—more so than now, when I’m actually in it. There’s rage and sorrow here. But I’m dancing through it.
Read MoreMy parents are dead...
When my dad died in March, I became executor and successor trustee for his estate. I had lots of questions, and few answers. So I made a website about it: https://www.deadparentswhatnow.com
Read MoreMy April in reading
In the immediate aftermath of my dad’s death, April was a rough month for me. But I still managed to read some incredible books. To devour some incredible books might be more accurate.
Read MoreMy February + March in reading
The past two months I’ve been subjected to extreme emotional whiplash. In February, I went to Stockholm for my birthday—what a treat! And in March, my dad entered hospice and swiftly died. Somehow, through all of it, reading remained a constant comfort.
Read MoreSpring 2023 Playlist: Annotated
So, my dad died. It sucks. And even though I’ve been curating songs for this year’s Spring playlist for a while, I think the selections reflect the trauma of the situation—musically, if not lyrically. But they also reflect the sweet nostalgia of memories, and the rawness of fresh starts.
Read MoreMy January in reading
I thought December was ridiculous—and then I read TEN BOOKS in January. The pages are a nice place to hibernate for the winter.
Read MoreMy December in reading
Sometimes things slow down at work and you read nine books in a single month. I am living proof.
Read MoreWinter 2022/23 Playlist: Annotated
Through the end of October and November, I decided to learn more about metal, since it’s a genre I’ve hitherto largely neglected. I figured that exploration would have an impact on my winter playlist this year—and it absolutely did not. Not even a little. Instead the playlist ended up being weirdly chart-toppery? The heart wants what it wants, I guess.
Read MoreMy November in reading
With the exception of one audiobook, I dedicated the month of November to Tamsyn Muir’s Locked Tomb series—easily some of the best books I’ve read in recent years. We do bones, motherfucker.
Read MoreMy October in reading
Given my dad’s diagnosis, I think I may have gone overboard using Spooky Season to buoy my mental health. I got really into it. But then, can you ever have too much Spooky Season?
Read MoreMy September in reading
I always try to start my spooky season a little bit early, so there are definitely a few horror stories here—plus some other stuff. Variety is the spice of life.
Read MoreTwo new stories in one week?
Because I’m usually working on longer projects, it’s rare for me to publish new stories in general. Two in one week is bananas. Enormously grateful to Necessary Fiction for sharing “Hell of a Game,” and to Okay Donkey for giving a home to “Ka, Ba, and Akh.”
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